Transliteration:( Qad kaanat lakum uswatun hasanatun feee Ibraaheema wallazeena ma'ahoo iz qaaloo liqawmihim innaa bura 'aaa'u minkum wa mimmaa ta'budoona min doonil laahi kafarnaa bikum wa badaa bainanaa wa bainakumul 'adaawatu wal baghdaaa'u abadan hattaa tu'minoo billaahi wahdahooo illaa qawla Ibraheema li abeehi la astaghfiranna laka wa maaa amliku laka minal laahi min shai; rabbanaa 'alaika tawakkalnaa wa ilaika anabnaa wa ilaikal maseer )
“Indeed, there is a good model [13] for you in Ebrahim and those with him [14]. When they said to their people: ‘Indeed, we have nothing to do with you [15] and with that which you worship [16], except Allah. We reject all that you believe. Enmity and hatred have arisen between us and you forever [17], until you believe in [18] Allah alone.’ But what Ebrahim said to his father was: ‘I would certainly ask forgiveness [19] for you, but I have no authority [20] for any of your favours against Allah. O our Lord, we put our trust in You and to You do we turn and to You is our final return [21].’”
This verse reinforces that true allegiance must be with faith, not with blood ties or cultural affinity. On the Day of Judgement, believers and disbelievers — even if closely related — will be separated. Loyalty is for Allah and His religion, above all else.
Muslims are instructed to follow the model of Prophet Ibrahim (AS) and his companions in their stance against disbelief. While obedience to Prophet Muhammad ﷺ is absolute, the example of earlier Prophets like Ibrahim (AS) is followed when consistent with the Shariah of Islam.
Ibrahim (AS) and his followers declared clear disassociation, not necessarily with the people, but with their religion and false worship. This disavowal included Prophets like Lut (AS) and other believers of that time who stood against idolatry and disbelief.
Believers must show distinction in belief and conduct from disbelievers. Part of true Imaan is expressing hatred and disapproval toward disbelief itself, not individuals as humans, but their denial of truth.
The declaration of disassociation was open and clear, not hidden. This shows that concealing one’s faith for worldly gain is generally considered sinful or even disbelief, unless under extreme compulsion (ikrah).
The enmity and separation Ibrahim (AS) spoke of remains until Tawheed (belief in One Allah) is accepted. Once faith is embraced, the division ceases. Until then, loyalty to truth is non-negotiable.
The supplication for Azar (Ibrahim’s uncle or father) was made in hope that he might accept Islam. But when it was clear he was firm on disbelief, Ibrahim (AS) cut ties [cf. Surah At-Tawbah 9:114].
This verse clarifies that Ibrahim’s prayer cannot be used to justify friendship with disbelievers. His supplication was conditional, not out of love for kufr, but hope for guidance.
Ibrahim’s closing words affirm that only Allah can protect or punish, and the final return of every soul is to Him. This also affirms that intercession (shafa’ah) is possible — but only for believers, and only with Allah’s permission.
The tafsir of Surah As-Saff verse 4 by Ibn Kathir is unavailable here.
Please refer to Surah Saff ayat 1 which provides the complete commentary from verse 1 through 4.
(60:4) You have a good example in Abraham and his companions: they said to their people: “We totally dissociate ourselves from you, and from the deities that you worship instead of Allah. We renounce you[6] and there has come to be enmity and hatred between us and you until you believe in Allah, the One True God.” (But you may not emulate) Abraham’s saying to his father: “Certainly I will ask pardon for you, although I have no power over Allah to obtain anything on your behalf.”[7] (And Abraham and his companions prayed): “Our Lord, in You have we put our trust, and to You have we turned, and to You is our ultimate return.
6. That is, we reject you. We neither consider you to be inthe right nor your religion. The inevitable demand of thefaith in Allah is denial of taghut (Satan): Whoever rejectstaghut and believes in Allah has taken a firm support thatnever gives way. (Surah Al-Baqarah, Ayat 256).
7. In other words, it means: Though there is an excellent example for you in Abraham’s (peace be upon him) conduct in that he expressed disapproval of his pagan people and broke off all connections with them, yet his promise to pray for the forgiveness of his pagan father and then carrying it out practically is not worth following, for the believers should not have even this much relationship of love and sympathy with the disbelievers. In (Surah At-Taubah, Ayat 113), Allah has clearly warned: It does not behoove the Prophet (peace be upon him) and those who have believed that they should pray for the forgiveness of the polytheists even though they be near kinsmen. Thus, no Muslim is allowed to pray for the forgiveness of his unbelieving kinsmen on the basis of the argument that the Prophet Abraham (peace be upon him) had done so. As for the question, why did the Prophet Abraham (peace be upon him) pray thus, and did he carry out his promise practically. The answer has been provided by the Quran in full detail. When his father expelled him from the house, he had said on his departure: I bid you farewell: I will pray to my Lord for your forgiveness.(Surah Maryam, Ayat 47). On the basis of this very promise he prayed for him twice. One prayer is contained in (Surah Ibrahim, Ayat 41): Lord, forgive me and my parents and the believers on the Day when reckoning will be hold. And the second prayer is in (Surah Ash Shuara, Ayat 86): Forgive my father, for indeed he is from among those who have strayed and do not disgrace me on the Day when the people will be raised back to life. But afterwards when he realized that the father for whose forgiveness he was praying, wan an enemy of Allah, he excused himself from it and broke off even this relationship of love and sympathy with him.
As regards to the prayer of Abraham for his father, it was only to fulfill a promise he bad made to him, but when he realized that he was an enemy of Allah, he disowned him. The fact is that Abraham was a tender-hearted, God fearing and forbearing man. (Surah At-Taubah, Ayat 114).
A study of these verses makes the principle manifest that only that act of the prophet is worthy of following, which they persistently practiced till the end. As regards to those acts which they themselves gave up or which Allah restrained them from practicing or which were forbidden in the divine Shariah, they are not worth following, and no one showed follow such acts of theirs on the basis of the argument that that was such and such a prophet’s practice.
Here also another question arises which may create confusion in some minds. In the verse under discussion, the saying of the Abraham (peace be upon him), which Allah has declared as not worth following, has two parts. The first part is that he said to his father: I will pray for your forgiveness, and the second: I have no power to get anything for you from Allah. Of these the first thing of not being a worthy examples to be followed is understandable, but, what is wrong with the second thing that that too has been made an exception from being an example worthily of imitation, whereas it by itself is a truth? The answer is that the saying of the Abraham (peace be upon him) has been included in the exception for the reason that when a person after making a promise with another to do something, says that it is not in his power to do anything beyond that for him, it automatically gives the meaning that if it were in his power to do anything further for him, he would have done that too for his sake. This makes his relationship of sympathy with the other person even more manifest. On that very basis this second part of the saying of the Prophet Abraham (peace be upon him) also deserved to be included in the exception, although its subject was true in so far as it does not lie even in the power of a Prophet to have a person forgiven by Allah. Allama Alusi in his Ruhal-Maani has also given this same answer to this question.
[1673]- An example to be followed.
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